So I've been out of it for awhile. Buying a house and moving in has been time consuming, though fun and exciting. We're finally settled, and I've even thrown my first party in my new house. Inspired by Stacy, I decided to try hosting a cookie exchange. Dan (A.K.A. BEST husband ever) waitered for the party. I cooked most of the food beforehand. Some of the food flopped, and Dan could have used some help, so there were some kinks, but I had a good time, I hope my guests had a good time, and I certainly got some excellent cookies out of the deal. I forgot to take a shot of the set-up before the party, but here's the aftermath.
And here's my haul. The cookies were SOOO good. Dan, the kids, and I have already polished off all seven dozen, and the party was only two days ago.
This year our family went out and chopped down our own Christmas tree. For me and the kids, it was a first, but it's the way Dan's family got a tree when he was a kid. I would say it was a success. We took Laurie and Dave along, and I think a good time was had by all.
Decorating our tree...
We had an excellent Thanksgiving. I forgot to take a picture of the lovely and delicious Thanksgiving spread, but here are Jorryn and Jasper in their Thanksgiving finery. Jasper, by the way, has finally decided that it is time to join the world of the mobile. He does a funky little drag one leg crawl now.
This picture kind of belongs on the last post, but this is Bennett's Halloween party at school. I was there as a helper, and I took Laraine and Jasper along. Laraine got to sit with the kids and enjoy the Halloween treats.
So a couple Sundays ago, Dan decided to bear his testimony, kind of introduce himself to the new ward....it may have been a nice testimony, but I don't think anyone paid much attention to it. I was sitting in the center pew, third row (our children had already been making their presence known quite heartily), attempting to hold Jasper and control Bennett and Laraine, but when Dan went up to the pulpit, Laraine ran after him. That was fine; he picked her up and went ahead with his testimony. Then Bennett decided he should go up too. Well, it would have been all right if he'd just gone up and stood next to Dan, but no, he grabbed the pulpit from the front and began jumping up and down, trying to see Dan. After a couple of minutes of this, I decided I better get him. With Jasper in one arm, I grabbed Bennett with my free hand. He refused to let go of the front of the pulpit. I got to have the supreme pleasure of struggling with him, front and center, before the entire ward. I managed to pull him off and literally dragged him (he threw himself to the floor and commenced kicking and screaming) to the pews. He grabbed the second row pew. I sat on the third row pew and hung on to his hand, while he stretched (on the ground) across the row and hung on to the second row pew. Finally, he broke free and ran up to stand next to Dan. Dan put his arm around Bennett and finished his testimony while I sat wilted and humiliated in the pew. It was lovely. If I had been a spectator, I would have loved it. The kind woman in the row behind me told me how nice it was for her to see someone's children behaving worse than hers. Anyway, we did, indeed, make our presence known.
Moving on to the rant....
I got a calling last Sunday...guess what? NURSERY! I accepted VERY ungraciously. I think Dan was about to crawl under the chair. When the 1st,2nd? Counselor gave me the news, I turned to Dan and said, "I TOLD you they'd do this to me." (Our first Sunday when I dropped Laraine off at nursery, I learned that there had only been one leader in there for awhile, and I said to Dan, "What do you bet they nail me for that one?") I then said to the Counselor, "I can't tell you I'm happy about it, but I'll do it. It sure is nice to be new in the ward and get a calling that allows me to meet people so easily..." I said some more really inappropriate stuff. Then I said some more to Dan later about my opinions on callings, particularly how it's always mothers of young children in the primary callings, when we're hanging out with young children all the time anyway, and why don't older people get these callings more? (Because old dudes REFUSE---one of my pet peeves---have you ever noticed how it's mostly older women sitting in Relief Society?) I'm pretty sure I crossed the line into sacrilege, but do I have a target on my forehead or something? I've spent maybe 5 months in callings outside of primary in all of my active adulthood. You would think after the display last Sunday, they would find me incompetent to work with small children, but I guess they figured I need more practice.
Dan wrote today's review: Australia
I have been quite occupied with moving, but I finally read a book:
Lost in a Good Book by Jasper Fforde
10 comments:
Brian and I thoroughly enjoyed this post. I'm sorry to hear about the nursery calling. You know my opinions on callings differ some from yours; however, we have made it a point never to call someone new to the ward to nursery for the very reason you describe. There's no calling quite so isolating. Hopefully they won't leave you there very long...besides, with the parties you throw, you should be swarmed with people wanting to get to know you despite it all.
See...you should never have moved and you would still be hanging out with us in YW!!:) Every now and then I do get nervous that my time was srved so long ago that they are going to stick me back in nursery! Good luck! If you beat the children they will probably release you!:)
I am glad we got to chat a bit at Christene's. We really miss you!!
Ah! Its so good to hear from you again! lol! That would be terribly embarrassing to happen in church in front of everyone. I would have been humiliated. I'm sorry that happened. Congrats on buying a house! It looks very nice from the pictures! I am REALLY sorry that you are in nursery. I totally know how you feel. I felt that same way because I have been in nursery or primary since we have been married. (Until just the last few months - knock on wood.) Good luck.
-Danielle
Oh ANGIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can I just tell you that I'm laughing so hard that I'm crying now!!! I LOVE that you hosted a cookie exchange, how clever and beautiful your table scape was!! And Kudos to Dan...he is the man! :) I know all too well how "those kind" of Sundays go. Bryanna had a fit two Sundays ago...I was utterly embarrassed and almost forced to tears...I know how it goes...kids WILL be kids, no matter how hard I try to work on good behavior!
ANd I think you are SOOOOO right for telling the counselor your opinion on the deal...why do they do that to us young moms with small kids?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I hope it does not last long and that you will find enjoyment in a calling one of these days!! I'm not sure what is worse...nursery or choir director (even if you can't sing?)
My mother and I were just talking about the nursery/primary thing. My mom would LOVE to be called into the primary, but they've kept her solidly in the RS for years. My last ward had all older women in the nursery, and everyone loved it(kids got a break from their moms, moms got a break from their kids, grandmas got to play with little kids, etc., etc.)
I feel for you, and hope you get some extra patience blessings for accepting the call.
I had so much fun at your party. Thanks for hosting!
Rob and I got that calling before we were official members of our last ward. Luckily we only lived there 5 months, so it didn't matter. I would never want to do it without Rob. I think it sucks that they don't call couples together if they are going to call you. At least then you get to spend time together. I just hope your reaction doesn't keep you from a cool calling later on. Poor Dan! You need to make him a cake for that though. I can't believe how social you turned out. Who knew? Well you are very awesome. It was only a matter of time before you spread that awesomeness around. (Don't get me wrong....I generally and whole heartedly still think you suck...most of the time. But your parties do rule!)
Oh my, what a fun sacrament meeting everyone else had. I can only imagine the scene you described so well. I love when others tell you how much they enjoy seeing you struggle with your kids because it makes them feel better. It does little to soothe the bruised ego and deflated parenting skills, you know? I'm glad you're settling into your new home. I love the pictures of your golden chargers and goblets. I've conjured up quite the spread and it really makes me happy to see you partying it up. I know you wanted to when you moved and you're doing it! I'm so sorry that you've had some disappointing callings. I know its hard to see the silver lining when you just want to try something new and with young people or adults for that matter. You already know I have a tender spot for nursery and I really find it to be a wonderful experience when done well. I hope you find enjoyment there. But believe me, I understand your feelings. Hopefully the counselor you spoke to took note of your enthusiasm and won't leave you there to languish forever. We're cheering you on!! (but from a distance in case you get struck by lightening.:))
That was a great party! I'm so glad I decided to show my sorry face. I just couldn't decide if it was better to show up as you all were leaving, or just bag it and stay home. But I figured the 7 dozen cookies on my counter obligated me to at least show up...and I'm so glad I did! I can't wait for book club.
Again, sorry about nursery. That's pretty harsh. I think we understand eachother on that.
And if it makes you feel any better, last week I had to give the closing prayer in SM, and when I finished I was hurrying off the stand (a little too fast), and slipped down the stairs. Nobody had really gotten out of their seats yet, so they all heard the "thud". I didn't completely fall on my face, but it was a close call and I couldn't get out of there fast enough. We all have our moments.
Hey I just found your blog -- It was fun to see your kids -- last time I saw you - Bennett was a baby! I hope life is going well. Anyhow I love blogs -- it's a fun and great way to catch up with long lost friends!
So, do you have internet access yet or what? I want to see pictures of your house already.
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