Born in the USA

Another 4th has come and gone. We had family in town, and it was a lot of fun, despite Bennett and his cousin, Cole, taking on a toxic plant and learning the consequences, which thankfully only consisted of a couple of days of vomit and misery with no lasting effects. (It was almost darling to see them huddled together over the toilet trying not to hit each other's heads with vomit). It was too bad they were out of commission for two days, since they love spending time together, wreaking havoc and whatnot. Is this picture symbolic of their relationship?Call it tradition or call it masochism, but as I have done almost every year, I joined the throngs for the fireworks display at the Sun Bowl. This year, sadly, no speech from Independence Day was played to get the crowd into a patriotic frenzy under threat of fictional alien invasion, but I wasn't completely let down---I was again treated to the sound of Springsteen shouting "Born in the USA" as I watched the fireworks. Last year I noted that I didn't think the planners of the St. George fireworks show listened to the lyrics before putting this song on the line up. Yet it's been on the line up every year that I can remember, and I wonder, can they be that dense? This year I've got a new theory. I think it could be that they're brilliant, and maybe they really have caught what should be the spirit of the 4th of July. I've decided "Born in the USA" is an incredibly patriotic song. Yes, it's an angry song about war and the plight of veterans coming home, but this is a country that allows complaint and protest, and that is, perhaps, its noblest attribute. Sure, on the 4th we should spend some time being grateful to live here, humming "God Bless America," but we should also spend some time thinking about what mistakes we've made, how we can avoid repeating them, and what we can do to make this country better. Wouldn't it be swell if being born in the USA didn't ever have to mean being sent toting a gun to a foreign land? If patriotism is gratitude and love for one's country with a desire to make and keep it a good place to live, and if nationalism is the belief that one's country is better than anyone else's with a blind defense of the nation's mistakes, let's keep it patriotic. I worry that we indoctrinate our children with nationalism. Bennett came home from school after the "USA" unit telling me how America is the BEST. Dan remembers asking his mother, who spent many of her young years in France, what it was like to live in a country that wasn't free. He was shocked to learn that the USA isn't the only free country. Anyway, in case you've never really listened (or if you just want to watch the part where Bruce Springsteen shamelessly displays his well formed butt in a pair of blue jeans (what's more American?), I give you "Born in the USA" (I love The Boss even more than Meat Loaf):

Bruce Springsteen - Born in the USA @ Yahoo! Video

And for your benefit, Stefani, Bennett's new favorite song---Bruce Stringbean and the S Street Band's version (though their "Born to Add" is actually better---you can also find Kermit singing "Dancin' in the Dark," complete with Piggy's stellar interpretation of Courtney Cox's role):


After the fireworks:
And this is how we amuse ourselves in my family. Hey, Glitter Ball Table Hockey is the coolest game ever around 1:00 am: